Love thingy

What are your middle names?
John and (shit... having a major mental breakdown) Marie? I should really start saying her full name in mock anger like she does to me.. then I'll remember it better...

How long have you been together?
11 months (ish)

How long did you know each other before you started dating?​
About a week.

Who asked who out?
I asked her

How old were each of you when you met?

How old are each of you now?

How tall are each of you?
She's 5'2".. I'm 6'2"

Whose siblings do/did you see the most?

Do you have any children together?
Hah! No. ... definitely not. Though the bunnies (and cats) are pretty much our kids.

What about pets?
2 bunnies and Jake has 2 cats... we've stolen them from him. They're our cats now.

Did you go to the same school?

Are you from the same hometown?

Who is the smartest?
We are really equally smart. I'm booksmart and have a way of rememebring useless facts from just about every textbook I read, and she is way more commonsense smart than I am.

Who is the most sensitive?
depends on the subject, time of week, alignment of the planets and the way Mars enters Uranus.

Where​ do you eat out most as a couple?
oh so many places I can't keep track.... MIMI's!

Where is the furth​est you two have traveled toget​her as a couple?

Who has the most frien​ds?
I don't know... never counted.

Who has the crazi​est exes?
That would be me...

Who has the worst temper?
That also has to do with the planet's alignment and a planet going into Uranus.

Who does/did the cooking?
We share the cooking.

Who is more social?
I'm pretty sure I win that one.

Who is the neat-freak?

Who hogs the bed?
I don't.. I know that afor a fact... *whistles and looks innocent*

Who wakes up earlier?
she actually wakes up in the AM.. i don't like to.

Who has the bigger family?
No clue.. never fully compared notes but i believe I do because my Dad's side of the family breeds like rabbits.

How do you spend the holidays?
Well... we might not have to worry about putting up a tree, but who knows...

Who is more jealous?
we might be even on this... maybe her because i can hide it abit better.

Do you have little pet names for each other?
Not really

How long did it take to get serio​us?​
about 2 weeks.

Who eats more?​
I do.

Who sings better?
She does... I break windows when i sing.

Who does the dishes?
It's a shared effort.

Who snores?
I do sometimes.

Who’s better with the computer?
Me! :D

Who drives when you are together?
the person who wins the coin flip pretty much.

Who is the first to admit when they're wrong?
Depends on who is actually wrong.

Who kissed who first?
I kissed her, in her apartment, on the couch... (almost sounds like a romatic Clue game)

Who wears the pants in the relationship?
Depends on who needs to, sometimes I do, sometimes she does. Neither one of us really owns the pants.

Who has more tattoos?
She writes on her hand with pen... she wins...

Who eats more sweets?
I do...

Are you two still​ a couple?
Heck Yeah.

(no subject)

1. What did you do in 2008 that you'd never done before? Mainly being myself

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year? No and I hope I do

3. Did anyone close to you give birth? nope

4. Did anyone close to you die? nope.

5. What countries did you visit? The country of Disney.

6. What would you like to have in 2009 that you lacked in 2008? Financial stability

7. What date from 2008 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? March 3, 2008 and March 25, 2008.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? Not quitting my job without finding and new one first

9. What was your biggest failure? not finding a new job.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury? not really, just sick a time or 2.

11. What was the best thing you bought? The best thing I have I didn't have to buy, but the best thing i did buy was tickets to star wars weekends and that was a blast.

12. Whose behavior merited celebration? Alicia's. She did a excellent job becoming a better person

13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? Again Alicia's. Where she did do a lot there were times when I didn't know what was happening

14. Where did most of your money go? Rent

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? Star Wars Weekends

16. What song will always remind you of 2008? Um....I don't really know.

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
. i. happier or sadder? happier
. ii. thinner or fatter? fatter
. iii. richer or poorer? richer (being rich doesn't mean having monetary wealth)

18. What do you wish you'd done more of? Saving

19. What do you wish you'd done less of? Working

20. How did you spend Christmas/Eve? watching a movie.

23. How many one-night stands? None.

24. What was your favorite TV program? Doctor Who

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? My new boss.

26. What was the best book you read? The Legend of Drizz't series.

27. What was your greatest musical discovery? Ballet

28. What did you want and get? At the begining of 08 I wanted a Wii, but I got something far better than that :)

29. What did you want and not get? Wii...

30. What was your favorite film of this year? Dark Knight.

31. What did you do on your birthday? Went to see Avenue Q

32. What was one thing that would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? I haven't a clue.

33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2008? Business casual and geek

34. What kept you sane? Alicia... and when she wasn't around, Books and games did.

35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? no clue I don't really care about celbrities.

36. What political issue stirred you the most? the next prez.

37. Who did you miss? My brother, mainly my brother before alcohol.

38. Who was the best new person you met? take a wild guess.

39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2008: How far to bend in a relationship before its too much.

40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year: No clue.. I don't normally listen to songs with lyrics.

Because I'm bored and these are kinda fun....

What's your Patronus?
Your Result: Your Patrnous is a Wolf!

You work best in a close support group and are fiercely loyal to those you love. You are unbeatable in a group and incredibly strong even alone due to your cunning at getting the job done.

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What Be Your Nerd Type?
Your Result: Gamer/Computer Nerd

You enjoy the visual stimulants of a video game, chatting on AIM, or reading online comics. Most of these types of nerds are considered dirty who lack hygeine, of course they always end up being the ones who make a crapload of money. And don't worry, that's just a stereotype; I'm not calling you dirty. ^_~

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Wow... interesting...


Well for once I actually celebrated Easter... And I must say it was fun. I went over to Alicia's house to make her dinner on Friday. That turned out really good even though I forgot just about every main ingredient to what I was making.. oh well.. it still turned out good. Well, Friday night she shocked me by giving me a key to her Apartment.. I was actually quite speechless. But I accepted it. Well the next day she leave at an ungodly hour in the morning and I was going to take what was supposed to be a quick nap in her bed before I left... quick nap turned into a 3 hour nap... oh well... her bed is comfy... So I get this idea to hide some Easter Eggs in her apartment. So I go out and do it. I was actually surprised that I had a good amount of fun hiding the eggs... It was like being evil by seeing places that I could hide them in without getting too evil by putting them places that she can't get to. (Don't think the thought didn't cross my mind...) It happens that she really loved it and was very giddy about looking for the eggs. I was happy (mainly that she wasn't mad that I re-enter her domicile without permission) But she also loved the Easter Basket I made for her. She was actually so happy about it she dedicated a Post to it on her Livejournal (I always feel happy when mentioned is a good light in her blogs and journals). It was actually such a good weekend that Ye Gods of Equality felt it fit to punish me today with a migraine and bad allergies to make up for the fun time I had... Oh well... I still had a lot of fun :D

Starting out

Yay... starting a new journal... Someone save me :(

Well I guess I should start out with a tad about me... I'm currently working at a Helpdesk for Verizon.. Yes, you may mourn me if you want.. I know I mourn when I wake up every day.  I'm a big time geek. I normally try not to fit myself with a label. For a long time I was just me.. but the more I starting thinking about it the more I realize that I do have a label... though I'm not as geeky as i used to be I still consider myself on and I’m proud to be one. But I'm happy that I'm not a purest geek... Those people annoy me... Like the ones that hated Transformers because it didn't happen exactly like it did in the old cartoons and the Transformers don't look like they did before... Me? I LOVED that movie... I've seem it about 20 times and I'll still see it again if asked. I like the new way they look, I think it makes more sense than it did in the cartoons. Another thing... Spider-man 3... I work with a bunch of geeks being in a helpdesk... but i am so tired of people complaining about that movie... It was a Great movie... Who cares if it wasn't true to the comics.. They got the basics of the story correct and they had to do it in one movie since they are not sure if they can squeeze another movie in there and still use Toby Mcquire. Only real complaint I had about it is that Venom said "I" and "Me". Venom never said that... Venom's character is really 2 characters... Brock and the symbiote. They were one character so they always said "We" and "Us"... ok that's ending my complaints... Gods know I've ranted too long already about stupid stuff... Ok... back to what I was saying before the ranting... I like video games... but lately I find myself preferring other forms of stimulation instead of gaming.  I've been mainly watching the TV Shows we have on DVD, those being West Wing and 24.  

Home life has turned pretty boring for me lately. It not hard to figure that out when you live with a alcoholic and try to stay away from him.  Since losing interest in the video game community I lost contact with a lot of good friends I had online.  Its come to the highlight of my days is just talking online with friends and watching TV. Though I only really have one person that talks to me anymore... everyone else is pissed at me because I left WoW. Apparently leaving WoW is akin to breaking all 10 of the commandments at the same time. Though, I might appease them by rejoining when the expansion comes out. 

Work life sucks... I recently took over payments of my parent’s house after they moved up to Maryland. I was excited about it to start with but it is wearing me down. They payments are really high and now that its up to me to take care of the house I find myself caring about things I never cared about before... Like actually thinking about a garden... Me.. the geek... thinking about a garden... I must be losing my mind... but I'm considering it. There is a spot next to my dining room that has a sliding glass door and a small area that is supposed to be used as a garden.. for the 20 odd years I lived here that has been a place of weeds and creatures that I’m sure science doesn't even know about. But I don't foresee this happening anytime soon... I'm pretty lazy and destroying and creating a garden is a lot of work... But who knows?

Love life is interesting, and it always has been... I'm always kept me on my toes with it... Weither it’s on my toes trying to keep from drowning or reaching out to try and grab it... I'm not sure, but normally I'm on the outside looking in when it comes to it. I've only really had one relationship where for a while both parties were happy. It was the best year of my life. I got so far as about to move in with her but I was not able to since I worked in Tampa and she lived in Lakeland. But  I was over there practically every other day and paid some of the bills.  When she left me it was not a great time for me. I went into a depression for about 2 months, sad to say... Only thing that really kept me together was WoW. Losing myself to the game and being able to momentarily forget all the troubles and pains kept me from staying in that state or worse climbing into a bottle.  It took me a year to get over that, and 2 relationships to be able to fully give myself to someone again. But as luck has it, and she does love to toy with me, the first lady I was actually able to give my heart to after that broke it, so right now I'm just taking everything romance related day by day. I am currently dating someone. Actually is the person who got me to join here, after reading her journal I decided I might give it a try. She is quite a lady... Very hard to describe. I know she'll more than likely read this so I won't say to much about it.. but, she really smart, so far she is the only person to really back me into an intellectual corner. I like that, I don't know if I have just been losing way too much sleep and just not thinking as clear as I can or I have to start bringing my A game, I strain my vocabulary to find new ways to try and confuse her yet hard as I try, I'm unable to do it... Unless she is drunk.  She also likes to make fun of me. That is something I like, don't ask me why.. I've pondered and pondered that until my ponderer was sore but i think its great fun to sit there and tease each other in a playful manner. So far with that it has been a 50/50 win/loss ratio.  And on top of all that she is really cute.  Now it might seem like I'm already shopping for rings on this... which I'm not. I know that things can change dramatically within an span of a day.  And I'm trying to keep myself from getting hurt, so I'm taking it one day at a time. If this buds into a relationship, wonderful. If not, well... I know that I gave it my best shot and that’s all I can do.

Wow... I figured I would write a couple sentences and be done with it... Ye gods... look like I'm trying to write a book...
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